RARE VIRTUES LADIES SHOULD LEARN 3

1. Sometimes, go out without make up.
2. Never call anybody ugly.
3. Have a routine.
4. Be completely self sufficient.
5. Know how to fix things around the house.
6. Know when it is time to leave, time to let go, time to be quiet.
7. Wear dresses
8. Become a mother.
9. Make plans and follow through on them.
10. Be the kind of woman that makes things happen.
11. Wax.
12. In conversation, focus on the other person.
13. Know how to cook 10 dishes very well.
14. Don’t be a high-maintenance friend. Life is busy.
15. Travel. Go on adventures.
16. When in another country, it is only polite to greet people in that language.
17. Be able to take care of yourself and like the way you take care of yourself before you become a mother.
18. Work.
19. Meditate.
20. Always carry a pen and paper in your handbag.
21. Spa days.
22. Have one collection that you love and can display in just one place in your home.
23. Don’t be picky about food.
24. Carry wet wipes in your handbag.
25. Never criticise your partner in front of his friends. Or anybody for that matter.

RARE VIRTUES LADIES SHOULD LEARN 2

1. Don’t talk about your exes.
2. Remember peoples names.
3. If he does not have a chance, tell him.
4. Be ferociously loyal to your man.
5. Never stop flirting with your husband.
6. Don’t be afraid of getting dirty when you have to.
7. Be punctual.
8. When asked for a suggestion, don’t be afraid to give your opinion. Don’t be indecisive.
9. Don’t lend money unless you’re willing to write it off.
10. Get haircuts often.
11. Know how to do a few hairstyles.
12. You don’t need to pout your lips like a duck to pose for a picture. Never do it. There is never a right time to do it. It never looks good.
13. Know when to ignore the camera.
14. Have conversations with children.
15. Be subtle. He noticed you.
16. Understand your life. Where you’ve come from, what lessons you’ve learned, and why you are who you are today. It’s your job, and not someone elses to figure out.
17. Play an instrument.
18. Have a talent that you can surprise people with.
19. Take photographs and make an album.
20. Keep a garden.
21. Make your husband’s lunch. Leave a love note inside.
22. Learn to dance.
23. You don’t need a “Pictures of Me” album on facebook.
24. Bake.
25. Trust until you are given a reason not to.
26. Once you’ve made your point, stop talking.
27. When you can, pick you own vegetables and fruit.
28. Do things with your children.
29. Always offer guests something to eat or drink.
30. Write down your goals.
31. Read before bed.
32. Make friends with everyone you meet on a weekly basis (grocery store cashiers, coffee shop baristas, people you meet on your morning run).
33. Know how to drive.
34. Don’t boast about projects in progress. Celebrate their completion.
35. Never boo.
36. Be comfortable on your own.
37. Pay back loans quickly. It’s your responsibility to return money you owe before someone has to remind you.
38. Know how to speak in public.
39. Be a great listener.
40. Sit at the front of the classroom.
41. You cannot control your feelings but you can control your behaviour.
42. Listen to the feeling that says “this isn’t quite right”.
43. Circulate at parties.
44. Learn how to pack light.
45. Take care of your skin.
46. Don’t argue with your husband in front of friends.
47. When going on a date, have enough money to pay for at least your meal.
48. Be easily pleased.
49. Leggings are not pants.
50. Don’t air your dirty laundry.
51. Photograph those you love.

RARE VIRTUES LADIES SHOULD LEARN 1

1. Don’t worry about a woman who is more beautiful than you, worry about the one who is more interesting than you.
2. It’s better to be right, than first. It’s best to be both.
3. Match your underwear as often as you can.
4. Stand up to greet someone.
5. Always greet guests at the door, and see them to the door.
6. Always leave your husband at the door.
7. Make the first few minutes with your husband positive. Don’t nag.
8. Learn how to make your loved ones favourite dishes.
9. Try it without sarcasm.
10. Know when your husband likes to have his coffee.
11. Keep your home clean. It is your responsibility.
12. Accept compliments with a smile.
13. Never brag.
14. You’re rarely too busy to welcome your husband home with a kiss and a hug.
15. Every day, no matter how you feel, get up and get dressed.
16. Be optimistic. It’s attractive.
17. If you need to cancel plans, do it by phone.
18. Remember important dates.
19. Save sentimental momentos.
20. Love the one you’re with.
21. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
22. Don’t gossip.
23. Stretch. Be flexible.
24. Wear heels.
25. Read.
26. Know what’s happening in the world.
27. Maintain friendships.
28. Whenever you visit someone, bring a gift.
29. Invest in a great handbag.
30. If you aren’t hungry enough to eat an apple, you’re not hungry enough.
31. If you have to ask yourself if you’re hungry or not at the fridge, you’re not.
32. Use your high thread count sheets.
33. Take care of your things.
34. When a man buys you flowers, take the time to smell them.
35. After writing an angry e-mail, read it over carefully, and then delete it.
36. Welcome new neighbours.
37. Don’t make a scene.
38. Don’t yell.
39. Don’t cuss.
40. Have a schedule.
41. Dress modestly.
42. Greet others warmly.
43. Be polite, refined and well spoken.
44. You can’t be friends with everyone.
45. Don’t talk about your exes.